Anonymous asked: Hai nab, I've been silently reading your tumblr. I don't know why but I feel like asking you just because, cos I've been keeping it and it's painful. What if ur bf of 3yr said something like this to u. ko bukan sesapa pun kat aku, ko tu sampah ja, ko ni bodoh sgt la, aku boleh ludah ko la kalau aku nak,and then the next day, he call and said just sorry as if nothing happen,everyday i hope that he will change, but the curses got worse. should i stay. been crying like crazy just to think about it.
My stand in this kind of thing senang ja. If he did it once, he may do it again. And again, and again.
Think about whether it’s gona be worth it if you stay and tahan all that burden and curses. You’re supposed to be someone special. You’re supposed to be cherished and loved. And not to be cursed at. Amboi ikut sedap mulut dia ja. Mak bapak ang pon tak cakap camtu, ini apa tah lagi some guy yang who is not even your husband, yang tadak ikatan pon.
You said it yourself, the curses got worse, and who knows, it will get even more so. Maybe it’s best to just leave cos y’know why bother with someone who doesnt appreciate you? Lagi lagi someone who belittles you? Apa kejadah nak ludah? Mai sini aku nak ludah dia tengok hamboih main ikut sedap mulut. If he cant have the courtesy to talk to you nicely, then just move on. Ini baru curses. What if one day dia naik tangan?
But aku orang luaq. So what do I know? I’m just giving my opinions yang maybe tak relevant pon with what you’re going through. You know that guy. So you decide la what you think is best for you huhu. Solat banyak banyak, doa banyak banyak, mintak doa kat Allah. InsyaAllah Dia tolong. Kita buat takat yang mampu ja la.
Good luck ha.
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